(VIDEO)”50 Shades of Safe” – Planned Parenthood teaches BDSM to teens

What are our teens learning about these days? When you look at how America ranks globally, it sure isn’t STEM subjects (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math).

What they are being taught — with your tax dollars — and government approval — will shock you.

Planned Parenthood sex counselors happily promote BDSM and other violent sexual practices to minors, according to an upcoming Live Action investigation as reported by the Daily Caller. Live Action sent actresses with hidden cameras to clinics in states across the country posing as girls under 18 to ask counselors for sex advice. In the soon-to-be released series of videos, Live Action documented counselors encouraging girls as young as fifteen to use whips, handcuffs, gags, bondage, dominatrix-play and even asphyxiation — deprivation of oxygen — during sex.

And I can hear it now, West you are attacking an organization that promotes women’s health — yep, bondage is a healthy choice for women for the liberal progressive left.

The trailer also shows counselors advising these girls that pain and injury during sex is acceptable and normal. “I wouldn’t say ‘abuse’ because it’s consensual,” one counselor tells an actress posing as a 15 year old. “Patients will sometimes come in with rope burns, or, um, markings on their breasts from, like, clamps. OK? And again, if it’s consensual, it’s OK…” Over two years ago, Planned Parenthood produced a video promoting these practices to teens, though public outcry led them to insist that the videos were intended only for adult viewing.

In fact, even this trailer below is as well.

Counselors are seen telling the girls both to allow themselves to be hit, whipped, spanked, handcuffed, and tied up, and to do the same to their sexual partners. They also explain that “blood” or “welts across the back” can be normal. “It just depends what type of pain you can take,” says another counselor.

A “50 Shades of Safe” workshop for teen sex educators hosted by a New York clinic last year purported to explain “the link between BDSM (Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Sadism/Submission, Masochism) and the sexual behaviors of young adults and/or teenagers,” and to train educators to help teens recognize “how a successful BDSM relationship is navigated between partners.”

The Personal Responsibility Education Program, funded under an Obamacare amendment to the Social Security Act, “is the first state-grant program from the federal government that funds comprehensive sex education,” according to Planned Parenthood’s website.

Hello “War on Women?” I’m listening for NOW, The View, Ellen DeGeneres, Nancy Pelosi and Debbie Wasserman-Schultz to chime in — chirping. Can’t imagine anyone wouldn’t agree this is unconscionable and unacceptable, but then again, I understand liberal progressive hypocrisy.

So, this is a good use of American taxpayer dollars, right?

87 COMMENTS

  1. Disgusting, unconscionable, It is reprehensible. Just more of the communist/Saul_Alinsky indoctrination agenda. Eat away at the core principles and moral fiber of the US to over throw it

  2. Autoerotic asphyxiation is a particular sore spot as we lost a very talented actor that practice a couple of years ago. Lets have planned parenthood tell our children, ” Le petit mort ain’t smart.”

  3. In my wildest alcoholic drug fueled life 30+ years ago I never thought
    of doing the things that Planned Parenthood is telling and suggesting to
    young kids that they can do. God help America.

  4. I just threw up… If someone tried to teach my 15 y/o daughter this while I’m teaching her abstinence and respecting her body, I would hire a lawyer and SUE!!!

  5. I would like to see a full interview instead of portions that were shown. I believe the term is called: “out of context”. I am no proponent to having our teens exposed to this very adult info. When a person is a consenting adult, then it is your right to expose yourself to this stuff, I would like to be sure that we are getting the full story.

    • Anyone who thinks abnormal sex is all right even for adults is morally deficient. Planned Parenthood is of the Devil and should be abolished pronto.

  6. Many people are against sex education, saying we should promote abstinence. The argument for sex ed has always been, young people are going to experiment, so we need to teach them to be safe about it. The same goes for BDSM. People, and not just young people, have accidentally killed themselves experimenting with breath play and other practices. People are going to experiment, and there is nothing wrong with educating them. There are MUCH worse ways to spend tax dollars.

    • Are you for real??? There is so much wrong with your position, I can’t even begin to address it. When do they bring in the animals and teach beastiality? What’s after that????

      • Totally hit it on the head..when is something going to be to creepy to.do. It’s like we’re slowly making everyone’s sick perversions become “ok”. So, when is bestiality coming??? Smh

      • Heck yeah! It’s a slippery slope. First you like your hair pulled, then you like being tied up, next a hard nipple twist, and then BOOM! Butt sex with a goat. Totally plausible. Or, and call me crazy, maybe two consenting adults having what ever kinda sex they would like to have, has no correlation with having sex with a non-consenting goat. Wait! OR is it like Star Trek. Interspecies sex is only lawful when they are a certain level of intelligence. Well F* it, that could mess up everything! I’m back on the hair pulling leads to goat sex boat… Outlaw it all!

      • Carl you are remiss in your refusal to accept the issue at hand, which is twofold. A) People are allowed to disagree. Sorry to inform you, but many, many people believe BSDM is deviant. B) BSDM education of children is not an inherent right of society! What makes you think you have to right to teach this to children? They are not CONSENTING ADULTS, they are CHILDREN! They can’t vote, they can’t drink, they can’t join the armed forces, what makes you believe they are mature and rational enough to determine if this type of behavior is in their best interest? So, stop with your incessantly rude insults, take your head out of your ass, and try to formulate a coherent and valid argument to support your argument. If you can’t do that, then shut up.

      • So, actually i joined the military when I was 17, on my birthday. Meaning I was an emancipated minor… an adult at 17. I believe you might have had an argument to start with, if you had said the government should not to teach ‘children’ about BDSM. But I quote (assuming your the same Louis) “BDSM IS NOT HEALTHY BEHAVIOR! Consensual or not, ANYONE, child or adult, who wants to engage in this behavior has a serious mental issue.” You included me with the adult part. The same adult who has fought for my liberty to do what the hell I like despite your opinion of it. Further, after years of medical research we know being gay or enjoying sexual different play does not correlate with being “crazy.” “Psychological Characteristics of BDSM Practitioners” Published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, found if anything that BDSM practitioners have less rates of psychological disorders. “People are allowed to disagree.” Yep, we sure do. I disagree with relating BDSM to bestiality. It’s something that deserves an equally absurd response. It’s a plain silly conclusion. In my opinion, feel free to disagree 😉

      • Again you are using you aperant knowledge you gained in 12 years of med school to put words in people’s mouths that weren’t there to begin with. If we allow PP to teach one form of sexual deviancy as the “norm” then we need to look at others in the same light. So by saying that it is ok to teach our children that BDSM is ok, then were do we stop. Next we will be saying beastiality is now the “norm.” And there are studies out there that show up to 15% of people engage in interspecies sexual acts which is a lot higher than the studies where you stated only 5% are into BDSM. As you can see there is a relation of BDSM and Beastiality, both are a form of sexual deviations, to teach acceptance of one means we have to accept others as well. Where and when do we stop, do we allow pedophilia because it is a form of sexual deviance, no we don’t. People have the right to believe what they want and to teach those beliefs to their children.

        But why is is it OK for a Corporate Entity such as PP to step in and say it has the right to teach our children better than we as parents can about what is ok sexually for our children

    • With all do respect Melissa, I think you are totally off base on this one. BDSM IS NOT HEALTHY BEHAVIOR! Consensual or not, ANYONE, child or adult, who wants to engage in this behavior has a serious mental issue. The problem is we as a society lack the strength to say this, and rather telling the truth and encouraging these people to seek proper psychiatric help, we are “nonjudgmental” and make statements like “Well, it’s among two consenting adults”. That’s horse crap! If you want someone to whip you and cause you pain, you need HELP, and teaching this to our children IS BEYOND LUDICROUS! The “children are going to do it anyway” argument is irresponsible and just an excuse for poor parenting! Children smoke, we still make it illegal and don’t condone it. Children drink, we still make it illegal and don’t condone it. Yes, children have sex, but we still don’t condone it, and teaching them about BSDM is PLAIN WRONG!

      • Right? Like I bet your opinion is totally based upon years of medical work. My 12 plus years in the medical field have been for waist now that you have summed up that people having consensual sex while getting tied up have mental issues. AND Lord knows, liking your hair pulled is the gateway sex act to BDSM. It’s a slippery slope. Instead I think we should just drag these sick people out and beet them like the puritans of old.

      • Your 12 PLUS years in the medical field didn’t teach you the difference between waist, where you put your belt, and waste, to employ uselessly! On the other hand, my 45 years on earth have taught me that if you have such low self esteem, that if you think so little of yourself so as to allow another human being to degrade you sexually, or any other way, then you most assuredly have psychological issues! If you want to be tied up, urinated on, whipped, defecated on, or anything else you can dream up, that’s YOUR BUSINESS, and frankly, I couldn’t care less what you do in the confines of your own home! When you teach this abhorrent, deviant behavior to children under the guise of normalcy, that’s when I have a problem. Likewise, if you choose to teach your children that this behavior is normal and acceptable, that’s fine, BUT STOP CORRUPTING THE MINDS OF THE CHILDREN WHOSE PARENTS DO NOT SHARE YOUR POINT OF VIEW. Have a wonderful weekend.

      • Lol, thank you grammar nazi, you crushed my soul by reminding me of how much I suck at spelling, and did a wonderful job linking my poor spelling to my competence to diagnose, treat and evaluate a psych patient. From a study in Australia about the percentage of the population engaged in various sexual acts: 5% of them participated in some sort of broad definition of BDSM. That’s a lot more than the percentage of ours that have deployed to Iraq or Afghanistan (less then 1% has gone to war). Or that’s over 1 million people in their country. Further, “Psychological Characteristics of BDSM Practitioners” Published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, found if anything that BDSM practitioners have less rates of psychological disorders. Your only leg to stand on in this argument, and the one you should have stuck to, is that PP should probably not be receiving Fed funds. And though you don’t believe in banning BDSM you just want everyone who does it to be told how ‘deviant’ they are and how much help they need. Great! You’re right that you that simply stated your difference of opinion. While I simple stated how stupid I think you are for ignoring tons of medical literature/facts and research to the contrary. But hey I digress. Kisses 😡

    • It’s one thing to teach safety in sex play but quite another to advocate and persuade teens to experiment with BDSM and call it normal. I would venture to say that most people (adults) aren’t into BDSM. Furthermore, the term its self implies an unequal relationship between the partners.

      “Counselors are seen telling the girls both
      to allow themselves to be hit, whipped, spanked, handcuffed, and tied
      up, and to do the same to their sexual partners. ” With the amount of domestic violence against women, do you really feel it is wise to tell teen girls this?

      Planned Parenthood shouldn’t be promoting this with tax payer dollars. Yet libs will scream all day about anything Christian related that involves government property or funding. Double standard which is part of the genetic structure of Democrats/Liberals.

      • I would venture to say you are wrong on the BDSM… there are a lot more people into some version of it, more than you think. They just don’t walk around freaking you out, because it’s what they choose to do in bed, not public. The domestic violence argument is pretty weak as well. BDSM isn’t about violence, more that it is about enjoying something that is more like a show. It’s like going to Universal Studios and having fun acting out your favorite movie, and then going back home after. True BDSM is practiced safe, sane and consensually. If anything it teaches knowing when yes is yes, and no is no way more then any damn college party ever has. The only argument I think you have to stand on possibly is the double standard. As a libertarian I believe religion, your personal liberty, and what goes on in your bedroom is non of the governments buisness. However, I also believe that the health of the nation and populous is the governments buisness to see furthered. So, banning sodas? Hell no, people can kill themselves however they’d like. Informing citizens that they are not sick and deprived to do what they like consensually with another adult? Nah, don’t have a problem with that. Mostly because one, the government shouldn’t give crap what you’re doing with someone else consensually. And two, after years of medical research we know being gay or enjoying sexual different play does not correlate with being “crazy.” “Psychological Characteristics of BDSM Practitioners” Published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, found if anything that BDSM practitioners have less rates of psychological disorders.

  7. Why are US tax payers helping to fund these sleazeballs? Why hasn’t congress acted to remove funding for this organization? No wonder the TEA Party is gaining ground. The Democrats and Obama support this organization.

  8. I am totally dumbfounded……….what the damn hell is Planned Parenthood doing….the leaders of this organization need to find out what “pain” is all about! Why is this not being broadcast on the nightly news casts nationwide………..Planned Parenthood leaders need to be jailed. The lawlessness of Barack Obama, Eric Holder, “Old Uncle” Joe Biden, Harry Reid, and Nancy Pelosi is totally unbelievable……..time to bring accountability to all these monsters.

    • It’s not being broadcast on the news because it’s just a little more of the same old thing that’s been pedaled – though maybe not quite so blatantly – by this outfit for decades. They are part of the “author group” and the “consultation group” for the CC sex ed our children are now forced to endure, K-12 (from what I understand, there’s no opt out). I have seen the “teacher’s guide.” What it teaches, and what it promotes, are positively stunning; age-inappropriate from top to bottom.

    • You never learned about the concept of consent, did you? Animals cannot consent, humans can. Please show me one advocate of bestiality who isn’t mocked and/or stuck with a criminal record.

    • The whole POINT of The United States being formed was for religious freedom and having the separation of Church and State. Read your history.

      And besides, is this the same God who says that if a woman isn’t a virgin at her wedding she should be stoned, or that one shouldn’t eat shellfish or shave their beard? If you’re not following Leviticus to a tee, then you’re doing it wrong and have no right to judge.

      • Jane… u need to read the Bible just a bit more. Those are OLD Testament of how it was before Christ was born. NO fish..meat ..shave hair/head etc.. If not a virgin ..stoned etc. After the Grace Dispensation …those were under the Mosaic Law until Christ changed it all .(Cross referencing )… Amazing that an atheist is using the HOLY Bible as their reference. hmmm. Thats a bit hypocritical isn’t it?
        The OLD Testament is used for Cross Referencing with the NEW…NOT under the LAW anymore..k?

      • Once again, not an anesthetist, I celebrate a different religion. And if your god said not to judge, why are you judging the people who are trying to safely tell others of an alternate lifestyle?

      • You who know the Bible so well, have you read John 7:24?? We are INSTRUCTED to judge! Yes, we have every right to judge. Get a clue.

      • Still doesn’t affect the fact that the US was formed purely for the separation of church and state.

  9. Somebody fire these people! If my kid came home and told me about this I would be enraged and would probably go to jail for showings ass at the school. Time to stand up and protect our kids and stop with lip service only!

  10. I shudder at the thought of the Left “counseling” all the young girls presently flooding into our country.

  11. I am sorry but this tape like all others was cut just right so you can hear exactly what they want you to hear. It’s like the news, we will show you this, but not this. I have girls and grand daughters and planned parenthood was NEVER ever like this. Sorry but this is a spoof

    • Have you ever read about Margaret Sanger, the founder of this monstrosity? This business of killing, has always been sick. Just one more nail in it’s coffin.

  12. This is not a surprise. The DSM-IV (diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders) Removed Sadomasochism from its listings. It is no longer considered aberrant behavior unless it is part of a criminal act like kidnapping or murder. S&M has gone mainstream. Every day in America there are bdsm discussion groups, munches, conferences, etc. and Nearly every major American city has a “dungeon” where like minded people age 18 and up can go to “play.” Sadomasochism is a billion dollar business in America.

  13. Sick , disgusting these are the same people that if you spank your kid you are a abuser that should go to prison. But it is ok if it is sex with some body really?

  14. Overreaction.
    Take time to study about various things instead of getting angry about
    things without proper research. While most of this is not for me, I can
    inform anyone that different principles behind the BDSM lifestyle have
    not only saved my marriage, but also are simply a logical extension of
    the principles laid down by Paul. (Not the whipping and what not, but if
    you research you will understand my comments. Not doing all the work
    for everyone. )

    For the record, BDSM encompasses a whole lot of things, some unrelated from many other things it encompasses.

    Attacking
    BDSM because of the pain/pleasure aspects (Commonly known as the subset
    of Sadism and Masochismn) is like attacking all ice cream because you
    don’t like the superman flavor.

  15. I find this hard to believe, I want to hear from Planned Parenthood on this. If this is true, they need to be closed down immediately!! This is sick, you don’t teach any child this!

  16. As someone who practices BDSM, I think it’s important for people who are curious about it to be thoroughly educated in it. There is a difference between a healthy BDSM relationship and abuse/rape/etc. I am a masochist. Certain pain acts as sexual pleasure to me. My partner is fine in administering that pain, and only in ways that I enjoy. Plus, there is ALWAYS a safeword when one is doing a scene. That’s what defines the difference between consensual non-consent and rape. Good on these people for educating about a taboo subject in a nonjudgemental light.

    • @ Jane: I’ll not get into vilification over behaviors here. the point of the article is that Planned Parenthood is receiving GOVERNMENT FUNDING or taxpayer dollars for promoting things that some taxpayers such as myself find wrong. It’s like you having to pay for things you don’t agree with. Ultimately PP’s cash cow is getting people to have more sex so that they will get pregnant and not take responsibility for having children to engender more ABORTIONS. Abortion dollars are what PP is really after, not caring about how to better educate people in sexual maneuvers.
      The question, then, is whether or not you will laud them for THAT.

      • I highly doubt they’re in it for “abortion money.” Planned Parenthood isn’t “encouraging abortions.” I go there for my birth control, because I can’t afford it from a normal doctor. I’m not on it so I can sleep around, but because I have a disease that gives me a hormonal imbalance. (PCOS, if you care to look it up.) Without them paying part of the cost on my medicine, there’s a big chance I could develop ovarian cysts and die. People on this website don’t seem to understand that Planned Parenthood does so much more than abortions.

        And if we’re talking about government funding giving money to something you don’t agree with, then how about this: I don’t believe in a monotheistic god. Yet every year the government exempts billion of dollars in taxes from churches, money that could go toward the homeless, the economy, people who need it. Though they’re not giving money to them directly, they’re keeping money that could be used for a greater good. A sin of omission, not commission. And isn’t it in your Bible that sins like that are the worst? “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin” ( James. 4:17 ).

      • Just had to bring GOD/Bible into it huh Jane? Any SIN is wrong Jane…but by your being I would suppose an atheist (since u don’t believe in God) makes it more clear of why u support PP. YES they do promote and even advertise Abortions. I personally KNOW of girls I counseled that were coaxed into an Abortion while at PP. Abortions yield them BILLIONS of $$$ every single year since they started. So don’t try making anyone believe otherwise. As for BDSM …that should be a totally PRIVATE issue and not one TAUGHT to small children or even teenagers . To praise and condone it is worse than the acts themselves. What u do in your home/bedroom/w/ever is YOUR business…but teaching it to children is pathetic. For someone that is not a believer u seem to know some about the Bible. Interesting. !!!!!!!!!!!! Not saying u should be a Christian..or anything . Thats ur business. Our children are OUR business.

      • No, I never said I didn’t believe in god. I said I didn’t believe in YOUR god. I’m extremely religious, following the goddess Freyja. The reason i know the your Bible so well is because I was raised Christian, and hated every minute of it. I was told that being gay led to hell, and even though this so-called god loved me, I’d end up in hell if I didn’t obey his every whim. That’s why I left it. Keep in mind, I’m not saying all Christianity is bad. Look at Pope Francis. He is preaching and acting like Jesus would, loving thy neighbor and not passing judgement. But I was raised with a very bad brand of it, and it made me decide to seek my true faith.

        And just because you know one person who got an abortion through Planned Parenthood and regretted it, doesn’t mean it’s true for everyone. I believe they SHOULD advertise abortions. Do you think a teenage girl who had sex and got pregnant should sacrifice her future and become nothing but a vessel for a zygote? A person isn’t a person until they can survive outside of the womb. Until then, they’re a fetus.

        And I never said that BDSM practices should be taught to children. I’m saying that information on that and any other sexual subject should be readily available for people who inquire about it in a nonjudgmental light. My point of view goes for any type of consensual sexual activity. If people like you stopped preaching abstinence and taught people how to have safe sex, they wouldn’t need abortions or get STI’s. They’d learn how to prevent both.

      • Not sure how u got ONE person going to PP for abortions. I was a Child Counselor for several yrs…so visits to PP with their Foster Parents to KILL the innocent was a repeated process.

        Also sorry u were raised by such hypocrites while growing up. I certainly do not believe one goes to HELL if they are gay/lesbian. My faith does not condone it..but surely does not condemn to hell to anyone expect those that the Bible says Denounce that God is Real.

        People like ME??? WOW… u have no clue about ME.

        Good on these people for educating about a taboo subject in a nonjudgemental light. <<< u said this …NOT me.!!!

        FYI when I counseled teens it was part of my job to help them get bc …Thank you for judging me ..AGAIN.
        BTW….digital imagery is proving more and more that a baby in the womb at less than 12 weeks FEELS PAIN..SUCKS THEIR THUMB..AND WILL DODGE THE SALINE NEEDLE THAT IS BEING INJECTED IN THE WOMB.. My question to you is WHAT MAKES U AN AUTHORITY OF WHETHER ITS A BABY OR A FETUS??? YOU ARE SO WRONG.
        A ZYGOTE? You are truly a cold, hard, sad person to reference a human as a Zygote.
        A teenager that gets pregnant needs to learn how to keep her legs together to avoid such things happening…but if she doesn't…and gets pregnant…how is that the baby's FAULT? My friend in NYC was raped..became pregnant..but she did NOT blame the baby for her rape…she blamed the maniac that raped her. She had an 7lb baby boy who is now 13yrs old. Honor Roll student and a very happy young man with parents that love him. She is so thankful she didn't take the ;advice of some of her friends and abort the child. Granted not everyone feels as she did..but its so unfair and wrong to blame an innocent baby for ANYTHING. IF ITS NOT ALIVE THEN WHY KILL IT?
        ALSO… I had classes on everything involving sex ( bc, STD's/ abstinence, etc ) and ty very much NO..did not preach it..but embraced those I taught.
        JUDGING ME GOT U NOWHERE JANE….

        I BELIEVE IN LIFE….Life begins at Conception…otherwise why call it LIFE.
        Its your business what u do with your life and how u live and with whom. You're the one that put it out here to be questioned…not me.
        PEOPLE LIKE ME…LOVE LIFE…ALL ASPECTS OF IT. GOD CREATED US ALL EQUALLY…

        IM DONE ON THIS SUBJECT.

        JUDGE LEST YE BE JUDGED…GOOD NIGHT….and goodbye!!!!!!!!!!

      • What makes you have the authority that a baby is a baby? Are you saying that a mother is no longer a person with her own opinions just because she’s pregnant? And a zygote, in definition is, “the cell resulting from the union of an ovum and a spermatozoon.” Did you know that females naturally abort them (zygotes) if they’re impregnated too far past ovulation? Since women have the potential to do it themselves, I don’t regard that as human life.

        I also believe very freely in open love. You said yourself, and I quote, “A teenager that gets pregnant needs to learn how to keep her legs together to avoid such things happening…but if she doesn’t…and gets pregnant….” My question is this: what about the man that impregnated her? Why is society so obsessed that women be “kept pure” and “keep her legs shut” when she isn’t made pregnant on her own? Females should have the option to be something other than a host for a fetus. If they want it gone, they should be able to have the option. ALL women should, rape cases or not. If she’s in a bad financial place and can’t ford prenatal care, food, hospital visits, etc., you’re saying a woman should still carry the fetus full term and not be able to support it when it’s born? Inflicting that on someone is nothing short of torture.

      • There are other options out there available to women, girls in th at position other than abortion, they can place the child up for adoption there are so many caring families out there who can’t have their own children that would gladly take in and do adopt.

        However I have very little respect for a entity and that is what PP is a corporate Entity operating under the guise of offering help to women and then turns around and performs over 465,000 abortions a year. PP wants young girls in the sex industry just so they continue to get pregnant so that PP has a continued source of income, they have no regards for the women or the girls they counsel.

        As to PP teaching young women and children about sexual deviance being ok is not ok with all of us. You are entitled to your opinion Jane but so am I, PP has no right to teach children or young women about sexual deviations as the “norm” goes to show just how far the Liberal agenda wants to pervert our society and turn more people from free thinkers into sheep. Hell I would not be suprised if the liberal way of thinking would support beastiality and pedophilia as acceptible forms of sexual deviations to be taught by PP

      • You can believe that Planned Parenthood is nothing but a corporate entity, but as I stated in previous comments, they have helped me many times.

        Also, Planned Parenthood encourages safe sex. If they do nothing but keep “young girls in the sex industry just so they continue to get pregnant so that PP has a continued source of income,” why would they strongly encourage the use of birth control, give out free condoms, and offer different kinds of IUDs at a reduced rate?

        Once again, your idea if sexual deviance is my idea of normalcy, but that’s not the point. Would you rather someone curious about any type of sex (be it BDSM or not) go out and experiment on their own and possibly get hurt or an STD/STI, or would you rather have someone explain to them what is it so they’re not foolish about it and end up hurting themselves? Like gay marriage, BDSM is becoming less taboo, and anyone should be able to inquire about, like all sex, it in a safe and nonjudgmental environment.

      • The only sure way a woman will not get pregnant is to abstain from having sex. Condos and allama other forms of birth control do fail. If PP were realying concerned about helping women why not teach that, they PP have helped in covering up young girls in the sex slave industry, amongst a host of other crimes against women. And yet Sheepple like yourself continue to support them, that is why, they want to eradicate free thinkers who do not support their agenda, and teach children at a young and impressional time that the mainstream thought of most people is what is wrong

      • Since when is forcing women to abstain from sex a signal of a free thinker? Also, since when is a condominium a form of birth control? Planned Parenthood teaches safe sex because sexuality is in our nature. We’re biologically wired to have sex. Religions are for abstinence, Planned Parenthood is for people who want to have sexual freedom without children.

        I don’t support them because I’m a “Sheepple,” but because they allow women the freedom of sex without the shame most religions associate with it. Just because a woman enjoys sex doesn’t make her a bad person. Just because she’s had a lot of it doesn’t make her a bad wife. Planned Parenthood has been there for me for my birth control, my screenings, my OBGYN appointments, all for cheap and without judgment because I can’t afford a hospital. You really want to take that away from people?

      • Uh…Jane, why do you need birth control? I’m confused as you mentioned earlier concerning your partner…which you described as “her.” So why do you need birth control?

      • I never said the government could fix anything. My point is that was if churches were no longer exempt from tax breaks, there’d be much more money to go around to everyone. I believe that people need to help one another, but the religious people I have personally experienced (note that I don’t say all) have been hypocritical bigots. May you open your heart and accept Freyja as your goddess, and may she bring you victory, honor, and protection in Fólkvangr.

    • Jane, respectfully, why do you seek pain instead of love? Why do you get pleasure from someone else physically harming you? What pleasure do you get from allowing another human being to inflict pain on you? How can a bloody back, a choke hold, or anything violent be deemed enjoyable? How can you think this is healthy for you? How can you think this is not harmful? As an adult in a free country, I support your right to chose this, but I simply don’t understand it, nor do I believe it to be healthy. I suspect that you are seeking attention, or something else. Exactly what, I’m not sure. With all sincerity, I say that with all due respect. I am not attacking your or your lifestyle choice, but rather I don’t understand it, and I truly believe it to be detrimental to you.

      • Though you deem it detrimental, I deem it a blessing. My partner and I do love each other very much, and I have a stronger bond with her than I have had with any other human being. Why do you seek to be vanilla, to have boring, purely reproductive sex with your spouse? It’s all a question of personal taste. Mine is pain. Yours is what society has deemed normalcy.

      • Society doesn’t tell me that a bloody back, a choke hold, or pain in general isn’t enjoyable, or “a normal pleasurable experience”, my brain does. You turn your back on natural instincts, and chose to deem something harmful as pleasurable. Causing pain and damaging your body, whether you chose to believe it or not, is harmful. That’s a fact, not an opinion. You seem to be so caught up in being a nonconformist, that you have convinced yourself that physically harming your body (and I suspect your emotional well being as well) is a positive thing. You chastise normal sex as being “vanilla and boring”, when the reality is, that is the way it works. And, it’s far from boring with the right partner. Perhaps it is you who didn’t have the right partner. Being different from the norm is more important that your psychical (and again, I suspect your psychical) well being. If someone’s personal taste dictates that eating feces is a positive thing, it still doesn’t change the reality that it isn’t. Your personal taste may tell you that pain and psychical damage to your body is a postie, healthy alternative to normal sexual behavior, but really dictates otherwise.Good luck, and I wish you the best.

      • It’s not turning my back on my natural instincts. How I feel is how I feel. Maybe my brain was wired differently at birth, but I enjoy pain. I’m not trying to be a nonconformist. I enjoy what I enjoy, and if it’s not harming anyone else, why should my preferences matter to a stranger?

      • Your preferences mean absolutely nothing to me. You posted your lifestyle here on the Internet, and therefore, you opened it up to critique and comment from other people. Just because you have an urge doesn’t mean you have to satisfy it. Just because you like pain doesn’t mean that inflicting pain on yourself is a healthy, positive thing. If I “enjoy” masturbating in public, that doesn’t mean I am wise to do it. If I “enjoy” cutting myself with knives, it doesn’t mean it is wise to do it. If I “enjoy” snorting cocaine, smoking crack, or drinking every day until I pass out, it doesn’t mean it is wise to do it. In the end, as I said, what you do is your business. It really doesn’t matter one bit to me what you do, but if you don’t want people to critique or challenge the normalcy of your behavior, then perhaps you shouldn’t engage in debate on the internet. Your behavior might not be harming anyone else, but it is harming you.

      • Once again, our opinions don’t match, but it’s fine to be different. For me, it’s normal, and I enjoy it. I’m not saying that minor should be taught, as you call it, “deviant” sexual behavior. I’m saying that if they’re curious about it, their questions should be answered in a nonjudgmental light. Isn’t it better for them to have a responsible adult answer their sexual questions (extreme to you or not) rather than have them experiment and potentially harm themselves on their own?

  17. Makes me literally sick to hear someone PRAISE Planned Parenthood. Its nothing but an Abortion Clinic disguised as a place where they actually do help people. I’ve had children have their minds totally screwed up by these so called “good samaritan” PP people. Only ones condoning their actions are ATHEISTS, BIBLE HATERS, CHRISTIAN HATERS, AND 98% LIBERALS. That alone should answer all our questions ..huh?

  18. I wanted to expand on my earlier statements.

    I disagree in so many ways with Planned Parenthood, and most of what I read on this site, I actually agree with. However I have a hard time agreeing with this article for various reasons.

    First of all, BDSM, encompasses a whole lot of things, not just Sadism and Masochism. Furthermore most of you may not understand why some people enjoy pain as part of sex or in any other part of life, there is a reason for it, scientifically. In the same way runner talk about runner’s high after pushing their body to their limits, those who practice the sadismn and mascochismn side of BDSM enjoy pain, not for the sake of pain, but either 1) Because when we are in pain, our body releases a natural drug that is stronger than morphine, and they enjoy this “natural high”. 2) Some don’t enjoy the pain aspect at ALL, but instead enjoy being able to give their partner their entire being, as a gift, and the pain exchange can be a way to do this.

    Beyond the specifics of this, I take exception to the fact that both PP and Rep. West are also advancing the lie that 50 Shades of Grey is representative of the lifestyle, which is simply false.

    Furthermore Rep. West is equating the small subset of those who practice Sadism and Masochism with all of BDSM, BDSM equates multiple things, some of which if you take what the Bible (which I believe in) to it’s logical, though some would say, extreme conclusions, is definitive of what the Bible preaches.

    The collar so many are against in the picture for this article, is simply an alternative culture’s version of a wedding ring.

    • Very well written argument Sterling. I would surmise however, that while experiencing pain releases endorphins that may in fact give a “natural high”, that doesn’t make it a healthy, safe, practical, or normal sexual behavior. While I personally think those who practice any form of S&M need help, I support their right to engage in it should they chose. I think they would be fair better served by seeking help however. All of that being said, I, and many others, deeply resent this activity being “sold and packaged” towards teenagers/children. I deeply resent the “recruitment” that is going on. This has no place, whatsoever, being taught to minors, and particularly without parental knowledge or consent.

  19. Given his own well-noted tendency for sadism, I fail to see why Mr. West is in an uproar over this. Maybe it’s because these people emphasize consent, whereas Allen assaulted and mock-executed an Iraqi detainee without the man’s consent?

    • And I suppose that you would equate the behavior being encouraged by Planned Parenthood with the necessary interrogation techniques used to protect us from our enemies.

      GO HOME NOW, THERE’S A BRIDGE SOMEWHERE THAT IS MISSING IT’S TROLL

      • One is an activity between two consenting adults. The other is a blatant violation of the Uniform Code of Military Justice that should have landed West in a cramped cell in Leavenworth. Where’s the equivalency, ‘bagger?

      • You’re calling a 15 year old a “consenting adult?” It sounds like in your sick Liberal way of thinking, any female who is menstruating is an adult and ready psychologically prepared to participate in sexual activity. Or are you like so many of your comrades in the Communist state of California who don’t want to stop there, believing in raping small children like the sick Muslims that you guys are so quick to defend.

        Personally I hate tobacco use and I think that it should be banned anywhere that anyone but the user has to smell it. But if a “consenting adult” wants to use it where they are only harming them self and not those around them with secondhand smoke. But I have noticed that several of your Liberal Blue States are in the process of raising the smoking age. Now I am going to offer you a question based on something that those of your twisted way of thinking never seem to understand. It’s called “LOGIC.” Why is it reasonable to raise the age requirement for smoking while lowering the age for pushing children to participate in sexual activity? Kids who aren’t even responsible enough to make a decision to smoke or not, certainly aren’t mentally prepared to deal with the psychological ramifications of the intense emotional issues of sex.

        And as far as what Mr West did in Iraq, he was trying to save the lives of several of the men under his command who had been captured by bloodthirsty Muslim terrorist. Allen West should have been given a medal instead of being run out of the military by Liberal wimps trying to micromanage the war effort from Washington, D.C. Men far better than you and your pansy Muslim loving Liberals could ever be. The United States is going to hell in a hand basket right now because of you and your kind who are too ignorant to have a clue what’s reality actually is. I wonder if you will even figure it out before they are here in numbers too many to defeat and your hands are tied behind your back as you are about to be beheaded. You are nothing but a useful tool to those bent on the destruction of America and they hate you just as much as us proud infidels.

        And like I said before “GO HOME NOW, THERE’S A BRIDGE SOMEWHERE THAT IS MISSING IT’S TROLL.”

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